December 2012
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Anonymous asked: does anyone even update this anymore? it seems like hannah did everything for it and she left. :\
October 2012
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Anonymous asked: Hi Caution! Lately I seem to be joining sites and despite PMing people, talking in the cbox posting in shippers, and getting involved in threads I never seem to fit it. I always seem to play second fiddle to other plots and sometimes my posts in shippers seem to be ignored. Any advice for a roleplayer who wants to find and fit in with that perfect site?
September 2012
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August 2012
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Anonymous asked: I'm on a site with folk I would call close friends. They think I'm happy and cheery and even though it's hella busy - everything is fine. It's not. Not in the least. How do I drop the act and admit "hey, guys, kinda sorta falling to pieces here. i need help." I don't wanna whine on about the avalanche of issues I've been bottling up but I'm finding it...
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need help? we're here to listen.
caution-advice:
just drop us an ask. we’ll be right with you. x
5 tags
need help? we're here to listen.
caution-advice:
just drop us an ask. we’ll be right with you. x
5 tags
need help? we're here to listen.
just drop us an ask. we’ll be right with you. x
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Anonymous asked: I'm in my second year of college and have been dipping in and out of depression. I've always been a "smart" student who got the scholarships. But this year, I basically lied (exagerated) to my professor all Semester and told her that I was sick and ditched class 24/7. Initially, she believed me. But by the end, she saw through me and flunked me. I feel horrible. I'm...
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Anonymous asked: I'm running a site with a few good friends of mine. But I've never admined a site with them before and I'm really really unhappy with how they run things. They ignore members, say disrespectful things and I just found out they even flame sites. But every time I confront them about it I get replies like 'I was drunk, jesus.' or they flip out on me and start going on about...
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Anonymous asked: there's a girl in rl I know that rps. she and I used to get along and we would make fabulous rp sites together. now things have happened in rl where I can't forgive her and I don't want to speak to her. we have similar taste in rps so I'm always kinda wary when it comes to joining rp sites. I know were making similar ones now but I don't want it to be a competition. how do...
June 2012
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Anonymous asked: i've lived with an eating disorder for most of my life. nothing about me has ever fallen into place. it finally got to the point where i went to rehab to get healthy. i've been out for a year, and i thought everything was going great. i have a new diet that i stick to, but i've found that if i stray from this even a little, i feel immediate guilt and i get depressed. i've found...
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December 2011
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Anonymous asked: I attempted suicide 7 times in 2011. My psychologist won't believe me. My parents won't believe me. My teachers won't believe me. My friends won't believe me. They think I'm looking for attention. I'm so unlucky; I just want to die but all I ever do is hurt myself really badly. Please help me.
Anonymous asked: Things are pretty dire lately in my life & I've been feelin depressed. 2 the point where it feels like a constant panic attack & i don't want to interact with anyone + feeling like there's something medically wrong tht docs havent caught. Memory is shot,i 'space out' against my will & at times i feel like i'm not even in my body.Just feels like everythin...
Anonymous asked: I recently opened my board, and honestly, I see nothing wrong with it. The admins are nice, the members aren't clique-y, and the skin isn't too dark or light, but usually guests stop by just to flame us. Of course, I don't know why this has been happening, but I'd like a way to stop it? I know that if those guests had sites they wouldn't want it to be flamed, but if so,...
Anonymous asked: To get straight to the point, I wrote a reply to this one RP group post, and this one lady thinks that it's too dramatic... And the only thing that my character is doing is standing up to her abusive husband (the charrie that the girl plays). She seems as if alshe is refusing to reply to my post until I change it, but some other people have already responded and don't think it's...
Anonymous asked: I've been with this one guy for a while, he's my first everything and we've been planning our life out together, as well. He has a bad past with drugs and such, and he recently broke up with my b/c he says that the fight against his urges to go back is getting too strong, he doesn't want to hurt/drag me down if he goes down that path, and he wants to fight it alone. I honestly...
Anonymous asked: I have a really hard time fitting in with other people in my school. They all belong in cliques and everything, plus for this year I've tried to fit in with three cliques. The first one (only had two girls) one of the girls said that I was weird and everything, the second one was nicer, but for group projects I did with them, they never credited me, and the third one is just as worse. I feel...
Anonymous asked: So I've recently opened up my own forum, and it has really been successful. However, I'm going off to a weekend retreat where I'm not able to access the internet. I've lost members on a site because of these 'weekend retreats' and I'm afraid of losing members again if I go. I'm also afraid to look for staff, since last time, they were incredibly inactive and...
November 2011
3 posts
Anonymous asked: Hello. So I am using GIMP, but I have trouble getting the celebrities to come out perfect like people using more advanced programs. Is there anyway I can get mine to look more professional?
Anonymous asked: I'm on an intermediate mature roleplay, but everyone has horrible spelling and grammar. I'm thirteen and I have better grammar and spelling than them and they all say that they're twenty.I then posted a character ad for my character's husband. I stated that they are a romantic couple. This person says she's not comfortable with M rated threads! I don't think she read...
Anonymous asked: So I'm an aspiring writer. I've been working on writing a book for about four years now. I actually finished a book, but hated it, and started all over. Lately I'm bouncing all over the place full of ideas, and I can never stick to one or concentrate for long. How should I focus more on just one idea and force myself to write? I feel so useless with all my procrastination and the...
October 2011
2 posts
Anonymous asked: Well i have been in a realtionship with my boyfriend for nearlly three years, were enganged got a flat together everything I've ever wanted. However sometimes i can be really happy and the next moment i'm a total bitch. I don't know if im happy or not everyone keeps saying theres a whole world out there to explore and i'm unsure if this is what i want. Help??
Anonymous asked: So yea. I never seem to be able to finish character applications. It's so strange - I always almost finish, I just have to get the very end in, but I can't squeeze it out of myself. I've been adminning a site (that I of course love very much) for about a month now. I still haven't finished my own application. BAH. Is there any good way to draw inspiration?
September 2011
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Anonymous asked: Inspiration never simply 'comes to me'; I have to drag it towards myself. As a writer and a member of an active role-play forum, this is a truth that has become quite tiring. It is as though my mind has blown a fuse and now only possesses the capacity to grant me access to one character's threads at a time. To say that I owe my fellow members a few posts would be quite an...
June 2011
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Anonymous asked: hmmm, so i just found this so i might as well right? i have a boyfriend, but it's long distance. he's one year younger and busy 24/7 with work, getting a car, and swimming. i'm busy with trying to find a job, get a car, earning money to haul my ass to germany my senior year, and ballet classes that work me to the bone. because of this we barely talk online (that doesn't mean we...
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Anonymous asked: Okay, so I'll try to start from the beginning. I just got accepted quite recently to a really prestigous art school--which has been the college of my dreams for just about ever. I should be a little more happy than I am now, currently. See, I have a lot of motivational issues, and overall, am a bit of a downer. Said college is halfway across the country (the country being the US, so its like...
Anonymous asked: So I moved away from my hometown 2 years ago.. I'm in pretty good contact with all of my old friends... but my BEST friend (or old best friend) is slowly drifting away from me. Apparently she has changed a lot... an not in good ways. Whenever I go to visit she is never there... this year i hadn't seen her in 2 years so when I went to visit after making plans with her I was thinking oh...
May 2011
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Anonymous asked: If you're fifteen and you've never dated anyone...and you've kissed two people in your whole life, are you bound to be forever alone?
I'm definitely the 'fat & ugly' one in my group of friends--all of whom have dated, or have had tons of guys crushing on them/asking them out constantly. I just...I don't want to die alone. I'm scared of it, and it...
I'm definitely the 'fat & ugly' one in my group of friends--all of whom have dated, or have had tons of guys crushing on them/asking them out constantly. I just...I don't want to die alone. I'm scared of it, and it...
April 2011
2 posts
Anonymous asked: Alright, so this is gonna start out seeming kinda stupid, but bare with me.
On SDS right now, there's an event going on where evil overlords took over the board and stole the team centrals. People from all the teams band together and fight for their site, woohoo!
Well, there's this girl I've been trying to avoid for a very long time now. I changed schools to...
On SDS right now, there's an event going on where evil overlords took over the board and stole the team centrals. People from all the teams band together and fight for their site, woohoo!
Well, there's this girl I've been trying to avoid for a very long time now. I changed schools to...
Anonymous asked: Hey there! (:
All right, this is going to be a tad long, so I apologize in advanced.
So I finished high school last year and overcame an eating disorder that I didn't realize I had at the time until people kept telling me "you should eat" over and over again. I always brushed anorexia off. But from early childhood I would separate my food and eat one thing at a time...
All right, this is going to be a tad long, so I apologize in advanced.
So I finished high school last year and overcame an eating disorder that I didn't realize I had at the time until people kept telling me "you should eat" over and over again. I always brushed anorexia off. But from early childhood I would separate my food and eat one thing at a time...
March 2011
7 posts
Anonymous asked: Thank you guys very much :] CAUTION FTW!! Its a graphics haven, and staff know how to make a girl feel better <3
Anonymous asked: You guys are going to be like "WTF WHY ARE YOU POSTING THAT?" after I post it. But I'm going to, because I doubt you guys will judge. Im pretty sure most of you have been through it aswell. Everyone has. Its this little thing called the popularity scale. I know its typical for people to be sad about this, but I honestly am. I have been tripped like three times this year, been called...
Anonymous asked: I feel fat all the time. I'm 5'3 and weigh 120lbs, and I can't imagine feeling average or thin until I reach 105. I go on and off dieting all the time, one day eating 150 calories and another eating 1,200. I bike a lot and have PE every other day, but I'm not loosing weight. It gets me really mad and sad and I'll just stay in my room crying and then feel worse for not...
Anonymous asked: Right now i'm going through a lot of crap! My friends are fighting and tugging at my strings to pick sides. I don't really like the other girl and i'm kinda happy that shes not friends with her anymore because she always has pulled us apart. But I am not a mean person so I talk to her every once in a while but I really hate her. But on the side me and my friend are fighting and she...
Anonymous asked: So.. this is kinda really hard for me to say because I don't really talk to anyone about this but I want to know some opinions. So, I grew up without a father since I was five years old and the way he left us was pretty brutal. We came home one day and all his stuff was out and he left a voicemail saying how he wanted nothing to do with us and would not help mom pay child support. Soo yeah....
Anonymous asked: i can't be happy in my own skin. i've had self esteem problems for over a year now and almost got an eating disorder last year due to it. a year later, i'm still just as self conscious and i feel my eating-restricting ways coming back. i just feel so low after a lot of drama that has happened this year and i can't be happy when i look in the mirror or even when i think about...
Anonymous asked: This is gonna be long - sorry! I am in a relationship with this guy right now. I'm 19 and he is 22. We met while we were both in high school and have been talking since. We started hanging out a couple of years ago as friends, and our relationship slowly progressed. He told me that he did not want to commit and didn't want a girlfriend. I was about to give up on him because I...
February 2011
7 posts
Anonymous asked: I've been in love with the same boy for almost five years. We dated for about a month once before he told me he'd rather be friends, but I still haven't gotten over him. I can't distract myself with anyone else (I know everyone in my small town) and can't ignore him. Help?
Anonymous asked: i feel as if absolutely no one will want me unless my body is perfect.
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Anonymous asked: growing up, i was an active kid. i had lots of energy and and i'd always love to play with the other kids, even the ones who were five years older. but i guess that all stopped once i moved across the country before i started the third grade. away from my friends, i changed. i became someone who's loud, obnoxious, and just.. totally different from who i used to be. now i'm fifteen,...
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Anonymous asked: From a young age I've been quite timid. Scared of change, a worrier and just generally lacking in bravery. Making friends has never exactly been my strong point and I can never bring myself to waste time on fair weather friends. My friends are my Best friends.
I'm now nearly 19 and heading to university this year. I know there is a lot of mingling activites at uni but I won't...
I'm now nearly 19 and heading to university this year. I know there is a lot of mingling activites at uni but I won't...
Anonymous asked: Last year in school, this girl basically made my life miserable. She used to be my best friend, but one day she decided that she was going to ignore me, and didn't say two words to me then. The few times I've seen her in person, I just freeze up and freak out because I keep remembering how awful last year was. Well her, plus a few other factors led to me changing schools. However, next...
