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May 2011

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If you're fifteen and you've never dated anyone...and you've kissed two people in your whole life, are you bound to be forever alone? I'm definitely the 'fat & ugly' one in my group of friends--all of whom have dated, or have had tons of guys crushing on them/asking them out constantly. I just...I don't want to die alone. I'm scared of it, and it makes me wonder if I should just off myself now rather than face a life with 945356890505 cats. =/ I'm sorry if this sounds melodramatic, by the way.

Pah! Forever alone? Hardly! <3

To be honest, I’ve never hit that “teenager” stage where you’re all over people who you like, and there’s lots of those, and I’m grateful for it; however, I know there are people who can’t imagine the way I troll through my life and don’t want that. I’m content on my own, but I respect that some people aren’t. So stay with me for a little bit and I’ll do my best to answer this (8

From what I’ve read, it sounds like the type of relationship you’re looking for, m’dear, isn’t one you’re going to find in high school. I can appreciate why you’d like that kind of relationship- that’s the kind I’d ideally want sometime in the future, but I’m not sure if most high school guys are up for that. It sucks, but it’s just how stuff tends to go down in high school. Honey, beyond high school is a great big world with plenty of fish in the ocean for you to have your pick of. Don’t judge how the rest of your life is going to play out based on these few years. Instead of stressing over when you’re going to get asked out or kissed and by who, go out and have fun. Be stupid, be reckless, be a teenager. You only get one shot at it. Make sure you do the best damn job you can <3

Love always x
—- Jae

May 3, 2011
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